I am glad I read this article. I am dissappointed in myself. I also was winked by Harry. He is very nice, responds to email and wants to find a good relationship. He told me the same story, he was born in Trenton, NJ. He left with his family to go to England and was there for 17 years. He came back to USA and earned a degree in Engineering in a midwest college. He was employed by an Alaskan Oil Company for 14 years and now leaving the company as he has put in really hard work. He says he lives in Prudhue Bay Alaska and wants to start a consulting business here in NJ and then eventually retire back in Prudhue Bay, Alaska. He laughs alot, he is sweet and nice. He is at the end of his job with his current position, and was to arrive here in NJ. He says he has taken a 2 week job in Saudia Arabia as a consultant and then will go back to Alaska and pack up and relocate to NJ. He uses a match talk phone line. He did not ask for money, or anything like that, but the story is the same. He claims that he works hard on the rig and they do not have cell phones out in the ocean area. So, he uses this type of phone and he can not use anything with electric charges near work. So he only calls if off shore or after duty. I guess, it is too good to be true. I fell for it. I dont know if I am hurt in anyway, except that he probably will just string you along for a long time. It sounds as though the other women in the post earlier might have seen him. I know he shows a handsome picture. Only thing that bothered me was his voice does not match the picture impression. He has a accent, which I can not place its heritage. He actually sounded like a black or spanish mix and then I thought maybe an Australian mix with British/midwest. I think that is what bothered me. Fortunately, because it was April Fools day, my children told me he was a fake. So, I googled his name and the post was up for the first time. So, sad. He has my personal email and I gave him my cell to call me. I guess I thought he was coming to NJ and I would meet. He uses email@example.com
and a match talk phone line. Good luck out there to the rest of you. Possibly it is better to be introduced to someone by a person that knows you then this Internet stuff. I am going to get off Match as it was a waste of time for me. It just kept me busy looking at fake pictures. I was going to tell him I saw this post, but another post tells you not to confront them. They get angry. He did ask me if I found a new match and that is why I stopped communicating. I told him no because I just was busy.